Salam Ramadhan 2011

Ramadhan tiba lagi membawa pelbagai harapan untuk perubahan, semuga puasa kali ini diberkati dan diterima olehNya. Setiap mukmin yang mengerjakan puasa perlu mematuhi beberapa peraturan dan adab yang boleh menyempurnakan ibadah tersebut. Antara adab-adab terpenting ialah :



Menjaga lidah kita daripada berdusta, mengumpat dan mencampuri urusan orang lain yang tiada kena-mengena dengan kita.
Menjaga mata dan telinga daripada melihat dan mendengar perkara yang dilarang oleh syarak dan yang sia-sia.
Mengawal perut daripada merasai makanan dan minuman yang haram atau yang mengandungi unsur syubhat terutama ketika berbuka dan berusaha sedaya mungkin untuk menghasilkan pemakanan yang halal lagi bersih.
Berusaha menjaga kesemua pancaindera dan anggota tubuh badan daripada mendekati atau melakukan maksiat dan perkara yang sia-sia.
Jangan membanyakkan tidur pada siang harinya dan makan pada malamnya, bahkan besederhanalah pada kedua-duanya bagi menyelami kejerihan lapar dan dahaga.
Jauhkan diri daripada mengikut dorongan nafsu ketika berbuka dengan beraneka jenis makanan yang lazat-lazat. Sebaik-baiknya adat makannya sama sahaja pada bulan puasa dan bulan-bulan yang lain. Pengemblengan diri dalam mengurangkan tuntutan jasmani dan keinginan perasaan memberikan kesan yang positif terhadap kecerahan hati nurani yang amat dituntut terutama pada bulan Ramadhan.
Tidak menyibukkan diri dengan urusan duniawi pada bulan Ramadhan, bahkan mengambil kesempatan bagi beribadat kepada Allah dan mengingati-Nya sebaik mungkin. Justeru, dia tidak melakukan perkara duniawi melainkan sekadar keperluan hariannya atau kepada mereka yang berada di bawah tanggungannya. demikian yang selayaknya dilakukan pada bulan Ramadhan yang mulia ini sama seperti pada hari Jumaat yang sepatutnya dikhususkan bagi amalan akhirat.
Mempraktikkan amalan sunnah seperti segera berbuka apabila masuk waktunya, berbuka dengan buah tamar (kurma) dan jika ia tiada memadailah dengan segelas air serta melambatkan makan sahur.
Menyediakan makanan berbuka kepada orang yang berpuasa sekalipun dengan beberapa biji tamar atau segelas air. Sabda baginda s.a.w " Sesiapa yang menyediakna makanan berbuka bagi orang yang berpuasa baginya ganjaran seumpama pahala orang yang berpuasa tanpa mengurangi sedikitpun pahalanya (orang yang berpuasa). (Riwayat al-Baihaqi dan Ibnu Khuzaimah).
Memenuhi malamnya dengan amalan sunat seperti solat tarawih, witir dan sebagainya. Adalah dinasihatkan kepada para imam supaya tidak mempercepatkan solat tarawihnya seperti mana amalan kebiasaan di masjid dan surau.
Antara kelebihan mengerjakan tarawih di malam hari pada bulan Ramadhan ialah :

Malam :
Dosanya keluar seperti ia baru di lahirkan ibunya.
Dosanya di ampuni, begitu pula dosa kedua ibu bapanya jika keduanya itu orang mukmin.
Di panggil oleh malaikat dari bawah Arasy dengan seruan: “Mulailah kamu beramal sebab Allah telah mengampuni dosamu yang telah lalu”.
Di beri pahala yang sama, dan pahala orang-orang yang membaca Kitab Taurat, Injil, Zabur dan Al-Quran.
Di beri pahala seperti orang yang melakukan sembahyang di Masjidil Haram di Makkah, Masjid An-Nabawi di Madinah dan Masjid Al-Aqsa di Palestin.
Di beri pahala seperti pahala malaikat yang tawaf di Baitul Ma’mur, batu-batu serta pasir turut sama memohonkan ampun baginya.
Seperti orang yang hidup pada zaman Nabi Musa dan membantunya hingga dapat mengalahkan Fir’aun dan Haman.
Di berikan oleh Allah segala apa yang pernah di berikan kepada Nabi Ibrahim ‘alaihisalam
Seperti pahala beribadah kepada Allah yang di lakukan oleh Nabi Muhammad S.A.W
Di kurniakan oleh Allah kebaikan dunia dan akhirat
Keluar dari dunia seperti pada hari dilahirkan dari kandungan ibu bersih daripada segala dosa
Datang di hari kiamat dengan keadaan mukanya bercahaya dan bersinar bagaikan malam bulan purnama.
Datang di hari kiamat dengan keadaan aman dari segala kejahatan.
Disaksikan oleh para malaikat, kalau dia telah melaksanakan solat tarawih maka pada hari kiamat ia akan di bebaskan oleh Allah dari segala mudarat.
Di minta ampun oleh para malaikat, oleh malaikat yang memikul Arasy dan Kerusi.
Di bebaskan dari api neraka dan dapat masuk syurga.
Di beri pahala seperti pahala para Nabi.
Di seru oleh para malaikat, “Wahai hamba Allah, bahawasanya Allah telah redha kepadamu dan kepada orang tua kamu”.
Di angkat darjatnya ke dalam syurga firdaus.
Di beri pahala para syuhada dan salihin.
Di bina rumahnya dari nur di dalam syurga.
Kelak di hari kiamat ia akan datang dengan aman dari segala kesusahan dan dugaan.
Di bangunkan sebuah kota untuknya di syurga
Di beri pahala yang berupakan dua puluh empat permohonan di kabulkan.
Di hapuskan dari seksaan kubur.
Pahalanya diangkat selama empat puluh tahun.
Dalam melintasi sirat (jambatan) pada hari kiamat kelak, dia akan dapat melintasi dengan laju bagaikan kilat menyambar.
Allah mengangkat dengan seribu darjat di syurga.
Diberi pahala seribu haji yang mabrur.
Di panggil dan di persilakan oleh Allah, wahai hambaku, makanlah buah-buahan syurga dan mandilah dengan air salsabil (air syurga yang sedap di minum) serta minumlah dari telaga kausar. Akulah Tuhanmu dan engkau hambaku...
Selamat Menunaikan Ibadah Puasa ..

~~The Oldies ~~~

***BeLek aLbum jUmpa GmBr The oLd dAys*****

Gambar kat atas ialah arWah Ayah saya deNgan Arwah Kakak saya pAdA taHuN 1980an lagi
so mAsa nIe mmg saya X uJud lagi...
mIzz them soo mUch....

Ini adaLah mat sAleh yG perNah Tggal kt rUmah saya Suatu Ketika duLU....
dIe dIBawah pRogram aNak AngKat....
mAsE NiE pUn sAya xDe lAgI...

Nie gMbr mY mOm dEnGan ArWah kAkaK sAyA yG sAkit dEngan pEnyakit mIsteri
sEronOk jEr mAse nIe....

sHe's cRying...

nIe pLak gMbr aBang2 sya yG rMai 2...huhuu
mSing2 cEkEding jek, huh sKrang sUme dAs jAdik bApak oWang....

nIe gMbR BuFday aRwah kAkak mAse dIe kEcik2 dUlu....
mErIah tAu....

Favourite Korean Drama~~Baby-faced Beauty

Recently I've been craving to watch Baby-faced Beauty a Korean Drama, I really can't wait to watch the ending.

"Baby-faced Beauty" is a romantic-comedy centered around a 34-year-old woman with a babyface as she works to become a fashion designer and overcomes obstacles like having only having a high school diploma and a bad credit history.

Choi Jin-Wook (Daniel Choi) is the heir of the famous Jokbal restaurant with millions of dollars in annual revenue. But, Choi Jin-Wook goes against his father and leaves his parents' house. Choi Jin-Wook starts to work at another company to accomplish his dream. Against his will, Choi Jin-Wook starts work in the fashion department. With his sweet character he survives there and meets Lee So-Young Lee So-Young (Jang Na-Ra) ...

link from : http://asianmediawiki.com/Babyfaced_Beauty

It has simple story line that shows around Lee So Young hardship life, she had to lie about herself to keep her job as junior designer and fulfill her dream, although it is not intentionally. This kind of story remind me when I was in Primary School. I was in class 6 that was when I'm 12 years old, I when to this Tuition class near my sister house with my nephew who is a year younger than me. I when into the exact same class as my nephew for 2 years to accompany him in the class, so that means I have to pretend that I am a year younger (although I never declare my real age). At the beginning there aren't any problem for me to keep pretend to be in that class, I had mingle easily with everyone in the class, I even had few good friends there and usually been praise by teacher because I am fast learner (because I'm a year older). Each recess, we will play around outside our Tuition class (There are many classes here and divided according to various age). The class is actually a bungalow and the surrounding area also full of houses, there are few huge tree near the bungalow. The tree usually blooms with yellow flower that make the area so peaceful. I love my Tuition class especially when Mr.Leon taught us, he taught Mathematics. He always asked us to memorize multiplication tables 1 until 12. He would usually said that he is not David Copperfield that can do magic to help us memorize, that was when I knew David Copperfield, and he was very famous at that time. One of my best friend there is Avrij (don't remember to spell her name already) used to like Teakwando, she sometimes would practice her skills with me. Then came a boy from my school, he is a year younger and I recognize him because he was a school prefect. He came and sits in the exact class as mine, because her cousin also sits in the same class and also one of my friend. My cover was almost blown after the boy ask me where I was schooling, I told that I'm schooling at the same school but he could not recognize me. I'm a bit relief that the boy had not recognized me, I would avoid if I ever met him at school. Some of the kids in my age from my school also learned at the Tuition place. Although I felt that I haven't done anything wrong, but still I felt guilty too. I never told my Tuition friend my age really was, and I really couldn't, its quite hard for me to explain anyway. But I really cherish all the memory that I gained from the past. I wonder where are they now and how are they doing now, really miss my friend a lot.Looking at the Drama make me realize how sometimes we can't control anything that happens to us, what you should do is face the challenges with bold, confidence and true heart.

Something to think about....

Rahsia Tarikh Lahir Bulan Mei

Our crazy day wif school uniform...;)

Last few weeks, my friend and I were making plan to celebrate my friend Hainim last time as a bachelor, next week she'll be getting married to a lucky guy name Firdaus. She and Qistin were making plan, I and Peyuz just follow the plan accordingly, its kinda bachelor party for us. At the beginning I personally have no idea whats the plan really is. The 'crazy time' they called happened on 3 days, but I only joined them on the second day. On the second day, we need to wear our old school uniform and take picture at special venue. I don't believe what had gone to my friend head, and at first I think I won't do it because I don't have any uniform. But at last I let my creativity runs wild, I found an idea, find my cloth that seem like a school uniform, hehee...so at last we gathered for the last time wearing and pretend to be a school kids once again. Look like our show are pretty convincing...yahoo!!!       

Mysterious May

Usually people would be excited having celebrated their birthday, but I find myself quite a downer when reach my birthday. For me its just a date to remember because i'm born on that day, and I don't celebrate my birthday. Around my birthday there are plenty of occasion that people around the world celebrate, there are Mother's day, Labour day, Wesak day (for Buddish), Teacher's day and so on. This is a month full of celebration and happy day, but there are also other date in my diary that brings bad memories that I would never forget. In 5th May a day that my father's died 9 years ago, in 27 May 2005 a few of my friends died in car crash. To add to my unhappiness on my birthday 15 of May is also a Nakba Day. Its won't cheer you up when its call a disaster day when millions had died at that day to defend for their right. Here are some of the description of Nakba Day. But it doesn't mean that I hate my birthday, just the feeling of celebrating it aren't that enthusiastic, but I do celebrate others birthday. For me its important to remember others birthday especially people that is close to you like your family and friend, because it show that you love and respect them and always remember them. To all you out there that celebrate your birthday in May "Happy Birthday and god bless you".

Nakba day according to wikipedia meaning "day of the catastrophe" is an annual day of commemoration for the Palestinian people of the displacement that accompanied the creation of Israel in 1948.^[1] It is generally commemorated on May 15, the day after the Gregorian calendardate for Israeli independence day (Yom Ha'atzmaut). During the 1948 Palestine War, an estimated 700,000 Palestinians were expelled or fled, and hundreds of Palestinian villages were depopulated and destroyed.^[2][3] The vast majority of Palestinian refugees, both those outside the 1949 armistice lines at the war's conclusion and those internally displaced, were barred by the newly declared state of Israel from returning to their homes or reclaiming their property.^[2][3]

These refugees and their descendants number several million people today, divided between Jordan (2 million), Lebanon (427,057), Syria (477,700), the West Bank (788,108) and the Gaza Strip (1.1 million), with at least another quarter of a million internally displaced Palestinians in Israel.^[4] The displacement, dispossession and dispersal of the Palestinian people is known to them as al-Nakba, meaning "the catastrophe," or "the disaster."^[5][6][7]

Prior to its adoption by the Palestinian nationalist movement, the "Year of the Catastrophe" among Arabs referred to 1920, when European colonial powers partitioned the Ottoman Empire into a series of separate states along lines of their own choosing.^[8] The term was first used to reference the events of 1948 in the summer of that same year by the Syrian writer Constantine Zureiq in his work Ma'na al-Nakba ("The Meaning of the Nakba"; published in English in 1956).^[9]

Initially, use of the term Nakba among Palestinians was not universal. For example, many years after 1948, Palestinian refugees in Lebanon avoided and even actively resisted using the term, because it lent permanency to a situation they viewed as temporary, and they often insisted on being called "returnees."^[10] In the 1950s and 1960s, terms they used to describe the events of 1948 were more eupheumistic and included al-ightisab ("the rape"), al-ahdath ("the events"), al-hijra ("the exodus"), and lamma sharna wa tla'na ("when we blackened our faces and left").^[10] Nakba narratives were avoided by the leadership of the Palestine Liberation Organization (PLO) in Lebanon in the 1970s, in favor of a narrative of revolution and renewal.^[10] Interest in the Nakba by organizations representing refugees in Lebanon surged in the 1990s due to the perception that the refugees' right of return might be negotiated away in exchange for Palestinian statehood, and the desire was to send a clear message to the international community that this right was non-negotiable.^[10]

Though the Nakba refers to the events of 1948, their continued salience due to the irresolution of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict has prompted Palestinians like Mahmoud Darwish to describe the Nakba as, "an extended present that promises to continue in the future."^[7]

clik here for more info : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nakba_Day , http://www.chicagomaroon.com/2010/5/18/palestine-catastrophes-spur-talk-from-khalidi-mearsheimer